Finally I can BREATHE!!

You are so confusing! This is what I am told by different guys that I have come across that dont understand my logic for being single.Here's the thing, it's not that I don't want a relationship because I do...I mean what female/young lady/young woman doesn't. I just personally haven't met that right guy to change my mind. Everytime I do feel as if I may have picked a winner it turns out that he's a loser by his own default. I use to believe that maybe I was possible doing something wrong until I thought about my past relationships and realized that I was always in a 90/10. Which is the worst situation to be in. For those of you that may be wonder what a 90/10 is...its when one gives 90% of themselves and the other only 10%. I'm always the 90!I have always been a "Cater 2 U" lady and always felt like it was my job to keep my man happy even if I had to scarifice my own happiness. Well I'm most definitly done with the 90/10...if your a guy and you can't meet me half way than your not the one for me. Everytime a guy asked me what's my type I would always say I don't have one, so that I could find out the real them instead of them posing to be someone or something they felt I wanted them to be.Well I'm done with that I'm not stepping out of that box anymore my type is an intelligant individual with street smarts and book smarts. I want a guy that can take me to a higher level of mental stimulation. I want a guy that's a hustler, NOT A DRUG DEALER but someone thats consistantly thinking of different ways to earn money. No I'm not a gold-digger but I'm not taking care of someone that CANNOT take care of me..those days are OVER and GONE. I want a guy that I can travel out of state and out of the country with, someone that's not afraid to try new things...Someone that I can just lay in the bed with and talk for 3-4 hours at a time, getting to no each other more and more each day. A guy that'll enjoy take out and a movie, someone I can introduce to the family. Someone that will appreciate me for what I have to offer and know that he'll get the same in return.I'm through with JUMP OFF relationships, if your not talking long term than you can beat it.I will no longer settle for less..if he aint the best then he'll have to move over for the rest!And to all my LADIES & FELLAS i suggest you do the same...re-evaluate somethings and people in your life and see how many you eliminate!